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June 18, 2012

Friday night was enchanted evening

Father-Daughter Dance for Hope’s Wings

RICHMOND — What a joy to be inspired to write a column for the Richmond Register about a night to remember, something good, something wholesome, something heartwarming.

I’m talking about the Father-Daughter Dance on Friday night at the Richmond Area Arts Council to benefit the Hope’s Wings program for the victims of domestic violence.   

From the moment I arrived to the moment I left, it truly was an enchanted evening.

The first sound I heard as I stepped through the door resembled a rather large herd of elephants. I took this as a good sign figuring there was certainly no trouble getting dads and daughters to dance.

My assumption proved to be correct as I followed the roar up the steps and discovered the dance floor was hopping (literally) with beautiful little girls all dressed up dancing with their proud dads. The dads also were mightily spruced up for the occasion. Suits, ties, even tuxedos, as well as semi-formal gowns, special hair-dos, fancy shoes and more!

But, what really struck me were the expressions on their faces.  Absolutely priceless.

Everybody was smiling from ear to ear including onlookers! But the looks exchanged between the fathers and daughters were much more than smiles. As I gazed around the room I realized there was something really special happening here. These fathers and daughters were fully engaged with each other, and they were speaking a language of their own. From the twinkle of an eye to a big beaming smile, the message was the same. Very simply, it was all about love.

I kept thinking the dads were going to wear out long before their daughters. Alas, I was wrong again. Everyone was seated during one of the breaks while the DJ handed out door prizes. He opened the next set with “My Girl.” All it took was the first few notes and dads were jumping to their feet, leading their little princesses out onto the dance floor. I noticed I was not the only one with tears flowing freely at the pure sweetness of the moment.

I attended as a show of support for Hopes’ Wings. It’s hard to believe we have such a need for a program for the victims of domestic violence, but sadly we do. On the bright side, I have no doubt the Father-Daughter Dance will become an annual fundraising event. Hats off to Hope’s Wings and the Richmond Area Arts Council for a job well done!  

As I took one last look around the room, I thought to myself, “This is a night every little girl will remember for the rest of her life.” And then I realized every father would look back and cherish it also. Come to think of it ... me, too.   Some enchanted evening, indeed.

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